Hats off to your courage. And when you really think about it this line of thought deserve to be abused is quite sociopathic in nature. with Dejanira conjunct his natal Sun I suppose I should add that. So the theory doesnt check out. on Dejanira and Nessus. That is why it feels so life and death. They made my day, Jeanie. However, if you want me to help you to find Jesus, that is why I am here. Romantic Conjunctions in the 12th House If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. As you know, or can find from my directory, Eros and Psyche are my favorite asteroids. Yes, it would. I think theres a trine or sextile to other asteroids but nothing major. What would you say about moon conjunct pluto in a composite chart. I will come back and answer when I have time to really look at the details. I do find it funny that I have Dejenira in 5 deg Sag, since most of my arch enemies were Sags. 12 degrees is WAY too much to be conj the ASC, my Friend. Isis is extreme devotion to the partner in the bravest, most selfless way possible. I just never have, not that it is not good. I dont do the Draconic. If you know, let me know! Currently you have JavaScript disabled. It brings you back to the time when you were a child and truly powerless. Im 30 with a mother that is 32 years older than myself and have never experienced any abuse, and Ive been alive and around my mother long enough to experience it. I remember the first time I discovered how to read a synastry chart; I worked with mine and my boyfriends for about 6 hours. Thank you, 3 degrees is wide but this is one of the hardest aspects in the whole chart, so please be vigilant, as I know you will be! Just from reading this, I think it looks very good but I really need to see the wheel as it is easier. They have transcended Nessus conj Dejanira, which is a new situation for me to see. What does Nessus and Dejanira mean when conjuncting each other? When/if that turns bad, it could become dark. Can you relate to it or are just worried in general lol. Your analysis is lovely. It is real to be neutral. Lilith desires sacred sex above all things. Sorry if this came off mean, I just dont want people to get scared over having one aspect when astrological interpretations are not set in stone. Her NN on his 7th makes me think its a past life hold. in the 12th house, you might be safe in assuming that there was a marriage or long-term relationship in a past life. what do you think about a double-wammy moon sextile pluto and pluto square moon in sinastry? The same with nessus conjunct ASC? Drawing that authoritarian feminine energy into the already present power themes must have been really overwhelming, just flooding in from every corner. Or can my Sun hurt the person. I dont think you can draw the concrete conclusion you did from these aspects. Would you say that a double whammy Nessus OPPOSITE Juno is something dangerous too ? I asked if I could post their charts but my friend isnt comfortable with it. I would say that there must be wonderful soul connections that keep down the abuse that would come up without these. You could post it in my Forum if you would like, Eva. so, quick question, where do I post it? Still, even without the conjunction, I have Nessus in the 1st house, which would make me abusive, according to these theories, and I dont fit. Double whammy of Mars-Uranus in our synastry chart. It makes sense when you consider how deeply Lilith desires to eat/destroy her loves mythologically. This is a general rule, my Friend. You don't need to BELIEVE in Jesus to come here and/or to contact me. Eros-Psyche: Eros and Psyche are natural mates. I have looked at them unto themselves but everything matters so I will start to incorporate signs and houses. Thank you for your words. I have not seen it fail in all of my chart work. I hear your concern. . You do not have to do their chart. If you see Moon oppose or square Pluto, dont play with the person. Obviously the hard ones, like by a square or an opposition, adding to the (possibly) destructive passion! This relationship can be really passionate, fiery, and exciting. About YOU being the Nessus with your b/f. But I did find out that her Amor conjuncts their Dejanira-Nessus conjunction, so her Dejanira is conjunct her Amor. Amazingly accurate. so what would it be? Check house placement and aspects to further your . It is the passion of lovers and the pure, primal love of a mother for her baby. Its not a square but there isnt much info out there on the conjunction. Yes, these asteroids have to be in a very close conjunction with other planets ( or a very close square) to be dangerous. If I had read this as a 14-16 year old, I wouldve been waiting everyday for my mother to start emotionally, mentally, or physically abusing me, and it would have put me in a constant state of fear because I didnt know much about astrology or how complex and fluid it is. . The flip side is that when it ends( and it usually does) you could go to jail for homicide. The pairing can easily fulfill the other's sexual desires and unlock some of their naughty fantasies. in the 12th house, you might be safe in assuming that there was a marriage or long-term relationship in a past life. It is really rocking my world right now <3. Our mars are square (aquarius:leo) also. Oh dear, I am soooooo freaked out!!!!!!! His sun/jupiter/neptune/venus are on my venus/saturn trouble spot in scorp. Can it be dangerous amiann? People tell me the same thing they tell me with Nessus. I just got into astrology a month ago and find it fascinating. Thats like saying everyone with their own natal mars square pluto aspect makes them destined to be molested. The relationship seems to end in a certain way, too. Maybe you felt this way sometimes given your Lilith-Eros contacts, but I was certainly the one more outwardly angry when the mess finally hit the fan. Ami, no one can describe astrology better than you. Good afternoon, thank you for this article If you do not have either of these in the natal but have them in synastry, it will play out the same way. My venus is conjunct someone's eros right now. Conjunctions, oppositions, and trines are best. Any comments will help. Isis Conjunct the Vertex. However, if you have Nessus/Dejanira and Mars/Uranus, particularly in hard aspect( opposition and square), it may make for dark spice, shall we say. My nessus is separated from my true node by 7 in cncer and in exact opposition to my venus. This brings out their dark side. What conjuncts your Aura? I've never experienced it myself, but have read that Lilith/Pluto contacts are also intensely sexual and even violent (particularly the opposition). ami, what would nessus trine dejanira in synastry indicate. I use the term female, but it would be the same for either sex. It gives no leg room, and its fearful to people. It seems like sexual abuse is an emotional theme that I am working with in this life. Coming from a standpoint of being an archaeologist, we can interpret and theorize things ourselves all we want, but an archaeologist telling a crowd of people that their own interpretation of the past is the TRUTH would not only be incredibly wrong, but it would also be detrimental to people that no nothing about interpreting and analyzing archaeological sites, therefore they would take that persons word even though it is not truth. -Eros conjunct their personal planets ( Sun,Moon,Venus, Mars etc.). Dark sexual relationship synastry top 5 | Signing. Lilith brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger and rage. As far as the form of abuse, one must look at the sign and the quadriplicity( cardinal, fixed or mutable) One must look at the chart to see how the abuse will play out but I think that abuse will occur in your situation with Nessus conjunct Dejanira. But I always have the feeling that people want to abuse/fool me in one way or another and they get surprised when I respond, I constantly need to stand up for myself in any sort of situation, from the cashier in the shop to colleagues at work. Venus mars aspects It sounds really bad I guess, but this person has given me so much positivity and encouragement and I feel has set me on a positive path. One other thing that might be helpful with this asteroid pairing, and one that I think is quite meaningful. It needs to be 3 degrees, tops, so no worries there! Am I right? I seemed to be destined to study and use Nessus and Deja. I dont want people to get the wrong idea and then get scared over a small aspect. I ve met a man who have his mars = my moon (1) in taurus and square my uranus (2) in aquarius. First of all Lilith is for . Do you have their synastry you could post on my Forum? However, this person would have to play it out before he overcame it. My sun and deja are on his nn. Well you may want to take advantage of their trust and innocence. I am the nessus person and I admit to having some devious tendencies towards anyone with neptune in that position. Eros isnt making any connections to either Dejanira or Nessus though. Thanks for your help Amiann. If other aspects and planets in the chart point to marriage, then it was probably a romantic, attractive marriage where the couple did not see each other all day, did not share a bedroom, had a large household staff, lived apart, etc. In my opinion, it will play out. Things DO offset things but one must look at everything to see a final answer which is my goal when doing charts.I am not trying to sell myself here, just trying to show that your question is too deep for a quick answer, my Friend. I am worried about being the abuser here. However, if the time is right, for sure, I would trust the chart over a personal account. If that does not float your boat, feel free not to read. I only didnt like that its being portrayed as complete truth that will always occur, when its definitely not the case. I found your site a short time ago and learned a lot, very descriptive in the analysis, I love it! Aww Fluffy Does the man walk up to you and tell you that he wants to abuse you because you seem like the perfect victim? Eros in a synastry chart. I guess ill post mine and then our synastry chart. Because of where my Moon is at 2 56 Scorpio conjunct Pluto at 4 36 Scorpio in the 8th house the men around my age (Im 35);tend to have their Pluto conjunct my Moon/Pluto In my current relationship my boyfriend has Mars/Pluto conjunct my Moon/Pluto. She is raw sexuality which will not be dark if it touches Venus imo and Welcome , what if I have my Lilith conjunct his juno and his venus. Does that fit and I applaud your willingness to face yourself. If you want to ask me a simpler question, I am game! He has pholus conjunct dejanira, all on my BML exact. The chart shows the TRUTH. Nonetheless, your interpretation of dejanira and nessus is intriguing. Thats not the truth. Yes, their Moons are trine both in Earth signs. Would the aspects to the venus offset the negativity that the Dejanira implies? Their capacity for intimacy and shared desire to melt into the fires of transformation is nothing short of total risk, which each are compelled to take- no questions asked. It doesnt always make for the easiest of relationships, because both people come into the marriage with the weights of the past life issues, but it definitely has staying power. In our synastry chart we have moon trine pluto and mars square pluto. No point living in fear for aspects that may not play out. It's been suggested that an understanding of someone's natal Eros gives you the keys to unlock their erotic desires. I have to always be honest. Eros in synastry Tell me, what is it like? My main point is reflection. If it has not of yet, it may be a new relationship. My eros was conjunct someone's mars and I did feel like whenever he was sexual, it was very erotic. there is no contact in real life anymore but the connection via the sexual chakra (either sacral or root chakra ) is still there and very strong. We are not discussing potential long-term compatibility between the sexes, not the love match-rather, signs of initial sexual attraction and knee-jerk reactions between two people.